What's your take on food hoard in weddings?

So daz how I was on my own oooo, then one of our aproko member #teamweddinggraces went for a high class society wedding in Enugu here and it was apparently clear that the wedding was well budgeted for, but alas!there was a problem at the wedding: the groom's family felt they were being cheated by the bride's family so the food and drinks hoarding started. A lot of people sitted at the hall didn't eat or drink anything as a result of the situation. How sad! This kain thing fit start couple feud sef... and we have been asking what the main issue was and why is it that Nigeria weddings don't recognise the proper use of RSVP.
Well, you can post your comments here and we'd sure talk about the advantages of RSVP.