I have been dating Tim for 4 years now and we are considering taking things to the next level but i'm seriously worried about the things he shares with his mom, i never knew i could fall for a "mommy's boy", and on the onset of our relationship i didn't find his closeness to his mom harmful but recently when we have disagreements or even agreements, somehow he has to get a nod of approval from his mom. We have talked about this over and over and he's promised time and again that he'll change but each time he runs back to her laps like a cry baby. I know she is his mom but won't she cut us some slack? Often times, she calls my phone to tell me how to run my relationship and i'm not comfortable with this at all and my biggest fear, is if we get married this might just be worse, now he probably thinks i'm against his mom but the truth is i don't think its right for her to run her affairs as well as mine, i think she should let her son grow up and manage his life. I know most people would think i'm stupid to hang on to Tim because walking away would be an easier option, but I need sincere help, is there a way i can salvage my relationship without walking away? Somebody please help.........
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